We are all connected, and the more we 'open up' about who we really are, our true self, the more we will see that others have shared or had similar thoughts, feelings, hurts, struggles, fears and insecurities etc. we are human be-ings and part of our evolving is diving into these deep-rooted fears and feelings and understanding where or what they really stem from. When we are able to face them and understand them compassionately, we can move through them... peeling back the layers that keep our heart and feelings protected. We have to dive into the depths of our soul to find our true self. When we are completely open and honest with others, speaking from our hearts we allow space for them to do the same.
Solitude, reflecting and understanding our past and why everything has happened the way it has to bring us to where we are, the lessons we were being taught, and being at peace with or making peace with the past and ALL that we have hurt as well as those who have hurt us are all parts of us evolving, knowing or understanding that we were only doing the best we knew how to at that time, we have to forgive our self as well as those who we believe to have hurt us yet they are only doing what they have learned, as we have..... It is our choice to unlearn and get down to the 'nitty-gritty' Relationships are mirrors, reflecting unhealed parts of us or shining light on areas that we need to 'tend to'. It’s like pieces of a puzzle - all fitting perfectly together to bring us to where we are and more importantly to where we want to go, it is our choice whether we want to learn, grow and flourish or continue to live with fear, regret, hurt and bitterness.
"Love is what is left when we let go of everything we do not need"